Self Help Books, Dealing with Trauma


Relationship Trauma & Emotional Abuse

  1. “Psychopath Free” by Jackson MacKenzie
    – A powerful guide for healing from toxic relationships with narcissists, sociopaths, and manipulators.
  2. “Whole Again” by Jackson MacKenzie
    – A follow-up to Psychopath Free, focusing more deeply on healing trauma bonds and rebuilding your sense of self.
  3. “The Journey: A Roadmap for Self-healing After Narcissistic Abuse” by Meredith Miller
    – A very accessible, workbook-style guide to processing emotional abuse and regaining personal power.
  4. “Attached” by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
    – While not about trauma per se, this book explores attachment styles and can help people understand unhealthy relationship patterns and why they’re drawn to them.
  5. “It’s Not You, It’s Them: 30 Days of Hope and Help for the Adult Child of a Narcissist” by Shahida Arabi
    – A daily guide for those healing from emotionally abusive family or romantic relationships.

General Trauma Healing

  1. “The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der Kolk
    – A foundational trauma recovery book explaining how trauma is stored in the body and how to heal through mind-body therapies.
  2. “Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma” by Peter Levine
    – Introduces Somatic Experiencing, a powerful approach to healing trauma without having to relive it.
  3. “Healing the Trauma of Abuse: A Women’s Workbook” by Mary Ellen Copeland & Maxine Harris
    – A gentle, practical workbook to guide women through recovery from emotional, physical, or sexual abuse.
  4. “Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving” by Pete Walker
    – Especially helpful for those dealing with long-term trauma or CPTSD from childhood or relational abuse.
  5. “You Can Heal Your Life” by Louise Hay
    – A more holistic and affirmations-based approach to healing emotional wounds, often helpful for those who are ready for a gentler, empowering read.